A few days ago, I was walking in a shopping mall with a guy named Nick, who considers himself to be the world’s best daygamer.
Daygame, in case you don’t know, is the practice of approaching a woman in the daytime, starting a conversation, and then getting her phone number, with the clear and stated goal of inviting her out later.
As we walked through the mall, Nick and I passed two girls walking together. One was very attractive. Nick’s highly trained eyes spotted something as we passed the two of them. He immediately spun around, leaving me behind.
“Excuse me, miss!” he said in a commanding tone. The two girls stopped and turned. Nick got up close to the very attractive of the two girls and looked her in the eye. He shook his head in mock disapproval. “You can’t do that,” he said.
“Do what?” the girl asked with a coy smile.
“You can’t just look at me like I’m a piece of meat,” Nick said.
The girl was beaming now. “And why not?” she said. “You look great.”
A few moments later, the girl waved off her friend, who was hovering a few steps away. The friend disappeared. The very attractive girl and Nick were left alone, leaning on the railing, talking closely in a little bubble of intimacy, as dozens of shoppers passed by, completely oblivious to what was going on.
Point being, a seduction needs to gradual. That doesn’t mean it needs to be slow.
This isn’t just about seduction, either.
Techniques exist that allow you to seamlessly lead to a fast seduction, or negotiation, or sale — so fast that it can seem impossible to those who haven’t experienced it themselves.
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